I can't believe how much people can change in a few years.  Currently working on a divorce on paper.  After being so close but moving apart, it blows me away that people can't keep it congenial after a long term relationship.  I get that separating is separating for a reason, but it's a shame that people can't keep a little more love in their hearts afterwards.  Word for the wise.  Keep that loyalty in play.  It just makes everything so much easier.